Sexting Messages and Dirty Texts to Send to Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend
When you are together, the world is your oyster. The physical pleasures are much more accessible when the physical partner is actually around. Unfortunately, that isn't always the option. People travel for work, business, family, or fun leaving you alone to satisfy yourself. However, there are other ways to work the relationship. Phone sexting has been around since people could put words on paper, and it will continue until words are no longer needed. Why? Words are more erotic than you think, and the sensations of your partner's body and taste can start from the simplest of comments.
When Should You Start a Sexting Session?
Double entendres are the most common of forward comments but because they are so common, they don't actually lead to the success that you would think. Instead, use these following moments to make an honest emotional connection with your partner via text. A shared experience or desire is much more likely to spark as saucy response for a fantastic sexting session.
When You Remember A Moment
Did you have a particularly great night last night together? Relive it in text. Mention how you can't stop thinking about it, or that you were still feeling them on the tip of your fingers and tongue. Whatever you do, mention not solely the action but how it left you feeling and still dreaming the next day. Sexting isn't just about talking about a thing but feeling through different moments and dreams.
When You Have an Idea
What if you and your partner had been trying to figure out something new to do or experience? If you thought of an idea to satisfy the craving, you could play it out over texting. This is a great game because it plays on reality and fantasy. It's useful to start with a real idea but don't bind your choices, unless that's what you are into. Instead, let your mind wander and texts explore all of the potential realms. Act like you are sexting about a passionate night in ancient Rome or on an exoplanet. Start with something concreate and allow the imagination to heat up.
When You Want to Get Them into It Early
Having thoughts about a sudden urge to party early? You can get them in the mood with a few well-placed comments. Remember that you shouldn't be too straight forward. Rather, you need to start coy and build up. Talk about what to do after work or classes. Talk about feeling needy or wanting to give back to the community. Tell them that their body is like a city with all of the different neighborhoods and that all you want to do is teach vocal lesson with your mouth to the adult section downtown.
For Playful Fun
Sometimes you just want to have fun. That is just as good of a reason as any of the others. The great thing about sexting is that you don't have to limit it to a single moment or experience. Rather, sexting can happen over the course of a day, week, or a month. It doesn't matter. You can draw out the sensuality of the words and images mutually shared until you both are about to physically and sexually pop. Sounds fun, right?
When You Are Feeling Horny
Similar to the last moment, maybe the impulse isn't just from a place of fun but from a place a little bit more carnal. Maybe it's deeper need to feel someone's nails scratch against the skin of your back, fingers through your hair as you're thrown to the bed from the wall. Your head hits the pillow as theirs lands on your lips, deep, soft, penetrating. No wonder romance novels are so popular. Sexting when you are horny is like creating your very own romance novel. Who wouldn't be into that experience?
When You Want to Explore
Sexuality shouldn't ever be stagnant. There is always something fun to explore and experience. This is what it means to grow and learn. However, it takes two (or more) to experience most partner activities. So, you will need to make sure that your partner is okay with the idea. You don't need to ask flat out. Instead, why not make it into a saucier question? Ask your partner how they would feel about a certain activity?
Depending on how they respond you could make it into a game or scenario that you could both play out. Ask them how they would respond under certain actions or situations. Ask them what they would do, and then you can respond in kind. Let the role play begin and the arousal lead to excitement and hopefully a recreation in the bedroom, or whichever room you will need.
When You Learn Something New
Often sexual expression grows by learning something new. It could be based on a porn or internet site or even something a friend mentions. These are great sharing moments to keep your partner in your head space. The more they understand how and why you think, the more they will feel connected to you and trust your instinct.
These moments make for great sexting session because you can become the teacher and they are the pupil. This is already turning into a kinky role play session. Regardless of the topic, don't just tell them what you learned, show them with words how it would play out. That will put them in the mindset of the moment rather than an abstract description of a sex act, so not sexy.
When You Have a Question
Finally, let's flip the last one. Maybe you need an answer but don't know who to ask. Maybe you know your partner has an answer. If that is the case, or even if it isn't, this is a great moment to text them a pointed question with a hot chance for a saucy reply. Even if you know the answer you could say that you can't conceptualize the answer well.
So, instead you need it played out in a scenario. Since this is all being done over texting, you've just started a fantastic sexting session. Play the scenario out, but there is no need to stop when the lesson is learned. That is just a jumping off point for all of the possibilities between your fingers.